Daksha means that everyone should regard his life as a form of penance. Daksha means that as long as life lasts he will dedicate himself to the service of his fellowmen. Thereby he will realise his oneness with all mankind. Such a feeling of unity will lead to God-realisation. Service is the only way to get rid of selfishness and self-centredness. A devotee who has resolved upon such service is dear to the Lord. (D3 , p. 358) If you become a daksha (skilled person) by means of anapeksha (desirelessness), then you can merge in the Shiva-tattvam, unlike the Daksha of Dakshayajna who had apeksha (craving for the fruits) and so, lost the Shiva-tattvam he had become akin to. Premawhich is the essence of bhaktiis built on anapeksha; if there is apeksha, it becomes bargaining and not Love unsullied by gross considerations. (SSS Vol.7, p. 70)