The counsel that I can give you is this: Do not hate anyone; follow the Gita’s (12:13) prescription to spiritual health:
advesta sarva-bhutanam
maitrah karuna eva ca
nirmamo nirahankarah
sama-duhkha-sukhah ksami,
advesta sarva-bhutanam, ‘without being inimical to any being’. The reason for this injunction is that God is the inner Atma in everything that exists. So injury inflicted on any being is a sacrilege, self-injury. Love is transformed into poison, if hate contaminates it. Love some, but do not hate the rest, for that hate will foul the love and make it mortal. Love comes automatically to the realised soul; but, the spiritual aspirant has to cultivate it by means of service and inquiry into the unity of the Atman. Love must flow not from the tongue or from the head only, but chiefly from the heart. (SSS Vol.7, p. 75)