When a child is born, worry too is born with it, worry that it should grow up healthy and pure, learned and good, famous but humble, bringing a fair name to the parents and elders. I would advise you to postpone the celebration of the birth of a child, until the day it brings Satkeerti (good fame) to the lineage in the country. Also, celebrate the accumulation of wealth when it is spent justly and with love, on beneficial and deserving purposes. A tree is justified by fragrant flowers bringing forth sweet fruits. (SSS Vol.20, p. 6)