Today, many young people may have the ambition that they should get a wife like Sita. A young man, who wants to have a wife like Sita, should make an attempt to be like Rama. If he behaves like Ravana, he will notdeserve a wife like Sita. If a girl wants to have a husband like Rama, she should endeavour to be like Sita. If she is like Surpanakha, how is she going to deserve Rama? So, in every family, the husband should be like Rama and the wife should be like Sita. If one will assist the other, at times of difficulties as well as at times of pleasure, like Rama ad Sita they will be happy indeed. (SSB 1977, p. 65)

Since you are all young, I wish to emphasise this point. Do not develop opposition or differences among you. Contrversies give rise tomany troubles. These days some people marry not once, not twice, not thrice, but even four times. This is not good. This is the sign of a wavering mind . Be singleminded. Even if somebody makes you angry, do not fight with him. Understand that by fighting with others, you actually harm yourself. Control your thoughts. This is the quality of a truly educated person. This is called educare. Along with education, you should also have educare, you will have everything – health, happiness, peace and prosperity. This is what I want you to understand. Everything will become good to you if you make your heart pure. At least from today onwards, take tot he right path. If somebody tries to put on the wrong path, do not pay any heed to him. If such person comes to you and tries to start a conversation with you, do not even look at his face. Just ignore him and go away from him. ( (Santhana Sarathi) Dec ‘10, p.406-407)